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Manage your Self - then Manage your Money
Stock Traders - Mood Management
We are all familiar with how either effective management or mismanagement
influences the success or failure of businesses, careers, and relationships.
Whenever we sense a lack of control as a manager in any of these important areas,
we feel we may be leaving ourselves open for unnecessary risks that can lead to
failure.
So we do the best that we can to manage our affairs. We have many rules in place,
we have boundaries for interacting with others, and we frequently call on experts,
their writings, courses, consulting and coaching, to further manage or otherwise
control who we are and what we are up to for success.
So it is with your online stock trading business, with one important distinction about management - attempting to manage what's not manageable.
The problem stock day traders have, any type of traders, is that most don't
really know what they can or cannot manage - before, during, and after stock trading.
Let me rephrase. Most traders, specifically losers, don't have any idea what to
manage and what not to manage, what's manageable and what's not manageable.
Losers, traders who have not found a way to be profitable trading stocks, do
everything in their power to manage the unmanageable, while ignoring who and
what they really need to have under control.
I'll try to explain.
Losers track, forecast, guess about and otherwise manage endless bits of trivial
information they focus on: the news, the direction of markets, and the stocks they
feel will make them money. Losing traders act more like managers than traders.
Losers laser in on the noise. They are glued to their TV sets, the Internet, and all
the so-called trading experts they rely on literally, to the point of exhaustion. The
chatter, all the widely varying opinions, the computer picks of the day turn out to be
just endless, boring noise.
This noise has little if anything to do with making money in the stock market. They
keep you busy and drain you of the focus and energy you need for what's really
important - trading valid stock setups.
Losers go on trying to manage the unmanageable, the noise, all the while, missing
the point of what they should be managing:
1. Their trading System (Game) - playing a winner's vs. a loser's system
2. Skills - gain confidence and competence
3. Energy - mood, attitude
4. Relationships - trading with winners
5. Results - trade execution, profitable performance results
Losers fail to take care of themselves.
Losers trade with an obsolete stock trading system, listen to the endless noise, ignore
themselveswith regard to mood, energy, how they feel, and how they trade.
Losers trade on their own wondering around for another sure pick, another indicator
to apply, another old-school stock trading course to take.
Losers insist on trading on their own, without a coach, without ever really learning
how to become a winner - without learning how to trade well, in the first place.
When it comes to their stock trading system, the trading game they play, they know by
proof of their negative bottom line that it doesn't work, yet they keep on trading
this dead-end game to the point of emotional dread and financial depletion.
When you ask them how well they are doing as traders, all they use for words are
luck, hope, picks of the day and so forth, words that trap them in the perpetual game
of losing. Ask them about stock trade competence and you will likely find them
speechless.
Ask them about trading with humility, not knowing, rather than endless searching for
the answers, trying to have all the answers for everything they do, and they could
easily get upset and feel insulted by the question.
Suggest they start day trading with a stock trading coach, a stock trades mentor you
will usually see losers yawn. Mention how Tiger Woods, who spends endless hours of
practicing with his caddy/coach to master a 10 foot putt and they quickly change the
subject. Ask a loser about the importance of managing their energy, and more
specifically their mood - before, during, and after each trade - and you will be in for
another quick subject change.
So, let's get to the point here.
Losers don't know how to take care of themselves, and as such, haven't a chance of
taking care of their stock trading game, or their financial results.
Losers try thier best to manage what's unmanageable (external factors) while ignoring
what should be managed (internal factors).
If losers really want to shift from losing to winning they must, repeat must, learn to play
the stock trading game winners play - trading with winner's in a winner's trading
room.
You want to become a winner in any game, play with winners. Same for the game
of day trading stocks.
As well, trade with a qualified, actively trading consultant / coach, if you can find
one. Stop trading on your own.
That you haven't figured out how to make money with whatever you have been up
to should reveal to you that you haven't a chance of finding the winning formula on
your own. You should now see that all this old school stock trading stuff, found all over the Web,
has been rendered obsolete by the new, big money trading game.
As a loser, you and only you can take care of yourself, right now, this very day.
If trading is not working for you, you need an immediate, radical shift in what you
are up to as a trader to ever become a winner again.
First, regardless of what you know about trading, if you are not a winner, get this real
clear - you must stop trading.
You, like most of the other losing traders, are prey for the big money winners. You must
stop trading for the sake of your emotional and financial health - now.
Trust me here. I've seen too many losers just about kill themselves trying to get this
trading game right on their own, or with the help of the endless number of useless,
old-school Web site services, only to fail miserably over and over again for the above
reasons.
Summary:
All losing traders are in trouble, big trouble, not for lack of talent or intention, but
simply because the trading game they got used to playing successfully was dramatically
changed by the big money winners.
Loser play the new game with old game rules and it's killing them financially.
Losers remain, it seems, in a mood of denial about losing. They feel frustrated and
drained trying very unsuccessfully to make money trading stocks with what they have
learned, yet they don't see a way to change or a need for change.
Here's the deal. If you know you are a loser, Stop Trading.
Get the expertise you need to take care of yourself as a professional. That you
haven't done this yet, on your own, means you very likely will never do this on your
own or with whomever or whatever you have been listening to.
Well, listen to me: stop trading and get some help if you want to be a successful
trader.
That was the third time I suggested that you stop your losing trading. Do it.
That's why I wrote all this - for you, for you to clearly see that you need to change
your game, change your entire approach to trading stocks.
Get in a winner's trading game with us, if you like, a trading game that's, at least,
winnable.
Gain winning trader competence with your stock trade coach using a winner's trading
game.
Without this dramatic change, don't expect to shift from losing to winning, you
haven't a prayer of ever being a winner trading old school.
If you are still unclear about any of this, call us. We'd be happy to help you in
any way we can, all for free - for you to put an end to the trouble you find yourself
in as a stock trader.
All you need to do to begin taking care of yourself is to make the call for help.
Contact Us Today - for your Free Consultation.
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John McLaughlin, Stock Trading - Consultant / Coach / Mentor
Helping online trading losers (troublesome, dissatisfied, not profitable traders, and bored traders) become consistently profitable stock trading winners, so they can earn thousands a day, day trading stocks.
Formerly an executive consultant / coach / mentor- over 25 years helping CEOs and other senior managers develop and energize their businesses, careers, and relationships - within the banking, real estate, insurance, and high-tech industries.
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